From
the Office of Student and Community Services, Department of
Student Services
MONTGOMERY COUNTY PUBLIC SCHOOLS, Rockville, Maryland
Coping with the stress that results from
difficult life events requires understanding, sensitivity,
acceptance, and patience. When these events endure over an
extended period of time and the stress becomes cumulative
it is even more important to take steps to reduce the effects
of this cumulative stress. When choosing stress reduction
techniques it is important that individual choose what is
right for him or her. Each person handles stress differently.
It is important not to judge individuals about the methods
they choose or force them to choose particular strategies.
As long as the stress reduction strategies chosen offer the
individual comfort and relief without any harmful effects
they are appropriate choices for managing the stressful situation.
- Write down specific worries and thoughts
about how they could be addressed by yourself or other individuals.
- Keep a journal of thoughts and feelings,
including what happened right before they occurred.
- Make a list of things you have done to
get through other tough situations. Use these strategies
again.
- Develop a personal safety plan with names
and phone numbers of support people.
- Practice what to say and do in a difficult
or stressful situation.
- Give yourself a treat - a warm bath,
a massage, a candy bar, or time spent doing an activity
you enjoy.
- Spend time with family, friends, or a
favorite pet.
- Pursue activities that allow you an opportunity
to take a break from the stressful situation. For example,
watch a funny movie or play a game.
- Give yourself or a child permission to
take a break from regular activities
- Get enough rest and food to stay healthy
and strong.
Information
contained in this document was developed with input from the
following source: "Caring for Kids after Trauma and Death:
A Guide for Parents and Professionals" written by Robin F.
Goodman, Ph.D.
The Montgomery
County Crisis Center is a free resource available 24 hours/7
days each week. Call 240-777-4000.
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